WHAT IS CONSENSUAL SEX? FACTS ABOUT RAPE AND SEXUAL ASSAULT

The rising conversations around sexual assault and the need for awareness about consensual sex have been long overdue. With #metoo and other high-profile sexual abuse cases, it important to understand what is sexual consent, what is the meaning of consensual relationships, why consensual sex can still be bad, and what are the facts about rape and sexual assault.

 

To state it plain and simple, sex without active and ongoing consent is rape and consensual sex is not rape. Sex is good for health but it is acceptable only if it happens between two consenting adults. Some people may give consent due to pressure from partners, peer pressure, insecurities, threat, etc. Even if such a person verbally says yes to sex, it cannot be considered consent. Active enthusiasm and willingness without any condition are important on everyone’s part who is participating in the sexual activities.

 

Awful sexual experiences against one’s willingness result in deterioration of mental health for the victim. Hence, one must understand that it is not acceptable to harm another human being and for vulnerable people to learn to stay safe. As much as it is unacceptable to put the responsibility of staying safe from various types of sexual assault, one must be asked to stay safe on their own first from predators. Sexual violence myths and misconceptions add fuel to this fire as our society is yet to open its mind and rectify this situation.

 

It is also crucial to know what the consensual sex age is in your country as every country may have its own. In India, it is 18 years of age. Decriminalization of consensual sex between adults and normalization of the same for the LGBT community is often not a topic raised by even activists. As long as consent and safe sex practices are followed, it is absolutely okay and needed for everyone to enjoy sex.